the deep satisfaction of snail mail


One of my favorite projects at Carrot Condo right now is my Customized Letters: two handwritten pages, both illustrated, and tucked into an envelope (also illustrated) and mailed once a month for five months.

So far, most of the letters have been purchased as a gift to someone. The customer tells me a little about the recipient: they like coffee, their non-profit work keeps them busy, they love books and the beach. Then, I write.

The recipient receives cheerful, fun mail each month and an excuse to put their feet up and read for a few minutes. No need to write back. All the fun of a pen pal without any of the obligation.


What is not so simple to describe is how deeply satisfying these letters are for me to create. I have a real audience to write to (not a vaguely imagined editor), a real purpose (letter due February 5th), a prompt (he loves dogs), and a length limit. And, once the letter is created, I send it off. It’s not tucked away on a shelf or on my hard drive waiting around for a place and purpose.

Sometimes the illustration inspires what I write; sometimes the other way around, but the process always begins with looking at the recipient’s name, reviewing what I know about them, and just thinking about them for a few minutes before I start.

And except for one subscriber, I’ve never met any of the people I’m writing to.

A 70-year-old man named Tim Johnson recently wrote and mailed 108 handwritten letters in 108 days. He’s the first to come close to describing my experience (and I read four books about letter-writing before putting Customized Letters in my Etsy shop).

He says a lot of great things, but this was spot-on: “these letters demand more time, thought and effort than the typical email, but my reward is a sense of creative satisfaction as I come up with a soliloquy custom-made for a particular person.”

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Creative satisfaction, yes. And because each letter is unique and shared only with that recipient (the most anyone else sees are the pictures here), I don’t draw the same thing or tell the same story more than once, which gives me a rewarding creative challenge.

Fascinating how such a simple thing, a handwritten letter, can be so fulfilling. If you want to give it a try, egg press organizes a letter-writing challenge called write_on every April. Keep an eye on egg press’s blog for details. Taking part last year is what inspired my Customized Letters, and I plan to take part again this year.

Perhaps this Customized Letter project is only beginning …

Happy writing! (And, as always, thank you for reading and for your interest in Carrot Condo; I’m so glad you’re out there!)

4 thoughts on “the deep satisfaction of snail mail

  1. Trista – i love this so much. And this post describes the process and how it works better than any other I’ve read (or maybe i just finally get the concept – slow learner! 😉 ) ! Love seeing pictures of letters you’ve sent out- they look absolutely awesome. Great job!!!!!

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  2. I remember writing letters when I was a kid and for years after that. Most of the relatives I would write to are now deceased and nowadays no one writes back. Only at Christmas do I receive a few, and also send one to all I send a card to!

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  3. That’s a really cool idea, Trista! And your illustrations are amazing! Wow! Did you also draw the woman on what looks like card stock? I’m seriously impressed! 🤩

    The new blog name is also really cute! 🙂 Sorry I’ve been gone so long… life demanded a lot out of me for the last few years, but it seems that with your blog name change, I wasn’t following you anymore… so I’m glad you found me! ❤


    1. Ariel, hello!! The last few years have been similar for me. I “closed” my ages-old other blog to concentrate on this one and my creative business. These Customized Letters have been pure joy for me as a writer. I have an actual audience to write & draw for, which gives me endless inspiration and creative challenge. Super fun!! And no, I didn’t draw the cardstock image—that’s a coaster from the restaurant (McMenamin’s) which is known for cool art in all of its locations. I included it in one of the letters.

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